If you want sugar grain size, don't buy into the hype of expensive reef sand from the lfs or online vendors, go to home depot and buy a few bags of old castle washed play sand, it's aragonite sand and completely safe for your tank, and costs about $4.50 per 40lb bag. 2 bags would be plenty for ya. If its not a clear bag with blue printing and not by old castle then skip on it, only that brand I can verify as reef safe. It may also go by the name kolor castle or something like that, but it will say old castle on the bag somewhere.
If you want that larger grain sand you could still fill your tank with mostly the old castle stuff, and get like a 20-30 lb bag of the expensive stuff to place a layer of on top of the sugar sand, a little trick to save a lot of money. The bigger grains will stay settled on top of the sugar stuff.
No matter what you do, definitely spend a good amount of time rinsing the sand in DI water to remove any dust from clouding up your new tank.