I sent a paypal gift to someone with no response back

m.miller1547

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I saw a really nice jbj unibody for sale on nano-reerfs and i pmed for info. I worked out a price on the fixture with the seller. sent payment. he hasnt logged in or responded to any of my messages. how long should i wait till i open a dispute?
 
You can't open a dispute if it's a gift payment. You would be SOL. Have you posted about him on Nano-Reef? I would do so ASAP. PM me his user name.
 
I dont understand how someone can just completly vanish and screw someone on just $80... If i dont get a response i will open a thread over there.
 
i cant access that site .. nano-reef.com

may be that person is also having some trouble accessing it ..
 
i have seen a few posts on NR regarding paypal disputes. try to do a search on their website in regards to paypal and see if the seller has done this in the past. he might also have changed his username. if he doesn't respond in a couple days, I would go with post regarding it. I have seen that happen. good luck, matt.
 
Ugh, I really hope he's not ripping you off. I don't know how people can do that without having a guilty conscience.
 
I sure hope not. Its really crappy tho. I really wasnt able to afford it anyways. I sent the money cause it was a great deal.
 
The funny thing is im no newb to this. I see it happen all the time. his profile spells trouble. 100 post and most of them in the classifieds.
 
Question? Not trying to sound rude but I think those jbj unibody fixtures go for $350 brand new and he wanted $80?? That should have been your first red flag IMO.

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Eric is correct,
If you paid by gift, he has no requirement or expectation to send you anything.
You cannot file a dispute since you gave him money as a gift (gift meaning you expect nothing in return).

People have tried many times to get their money as gift back from paypal with no success. If you try cancel it through your credit card company, paypal will sometimes send it to a collection agency and you will still owe them the money, but now it will count on your credit report agaisnt your credit score. Usually not a good idea.

Many people will sell tons of fake items on multiple forums for a low price. They do it thousands of times, hoping that even once they get someone to send as gift. If you sit on a computer and do it all day, you can make good money if you dedicate the tiem and do it properly. People even sell things they know nothing about. They could have just looked up the most popular aquarium, found a picture of it, threw it on an aquarium forum and hoped for someone to pay as gift. The amount he sells it for can't be too high ($800) so that someone gets suspicious or unwilling to pay as gift, and it cant be too low ($3) so that it is not worth his time to scam someone. 80$ would fit in this category.

Right now all you can do is try get ahold of him and hope for him to send it to you, although he is not legally required to do so.
How long have you been trying to get ahold of him, I wouldnt assume he is out to scam you just yet.
Sorry. :(
 
it was the heatsink and arm only.. it was gutted with no drivers... the guy game me allot of info. lol. ive linked his username to three forums and found his address... lol. people leave lots of trails.
 
it was the heatsink and arm only.. it was gutted with no drivers... the guy game me allot of info. lol. ive linked his username to three forums and found his address... lol. people leave lots of trails.

Nice job!!!!! Get the f....... I mean sucker! LOL.

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I understand and am very clear on all the topics you suggested... I'm no newb to buying online. Its been three days. I'm assuming at this point after checking multiple accounts hes been busy. He has been around.
 
You dont need to be new to buying online, just new to the scam. :)

If you dont personally know them and they are not a reputable business, never ever pay as gift.
 
three days ago... I may have jumped the gun. Thats why i havnt put out any crazy info or started a thread on nano-reefs yet. I found his phone number. I wont call till monday. Ive read allot of his post on different sites and he seems to be a really honest guy. Im thinking its gonna work out. optimistic here!
 
i was in the hospital and out of commission for a week once unable to use a computer durning a fish or croal deal, i normally contact the person via Phone and have access that way. I'd be patient atleast, you better bring some goons if you show up at his doorstep.
 
Whenever somebody asks me to pay via paypal gift, the purpose is always the same... so they have lower or no paypal fees.

Everybody is better off to just figure out the fees would be, and offer to pay the small fee for the security of disputing the purchase if necessary in the future.

Unless you really know the person, I would be skeptical of conducting any business this way.
 
Whenever somebody asks me to pay via paypal gift, the purpose is always the same... so they have lower or no paypal fees.

Everybody is better off to just figure out the fees would be, and offer to pay the small fee for the security of disputing the purchase if necessary in the future.

Unless you really know the person, I would be skeptical of conducting any business this way.

I have done this a few times and realized PayPal is keeping track of your lifetime gifting limits and probably could report to IRS. +1 on just grossing up the fee. MHO
 
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