I think if you get your tank parameters in check then buffering your top off water is fine. When I fill my Brute trash can with new RO water it comes out neutral 7.0ph and I fully believe this was dragging down the ph of my display tank. I started using Seachaem marine buffer 1.5 teaspoon for 30 gallons of top off. once I got my tanks ph/alk/cal bacck in order, I havent encounterd that problem again. Now my numbers are kept steady via a 20% monthly water change. Im not saying anybody else is wrong, this just works for me.