I admitt it was me because I felt all i did wrong was show up with my family, With out prior stating I was. But the kids and wife was wanting to strech. So Thought it would have been ok. My fault for thinking. 2nd I wont be back Jeni I am still picking algae out of the polyps and around them, Now if this wasnt start about me i would have thought yes this is a great thread, BUT with everybody knowing what i ( did Wrong ) bringing my family along, and seeing this post and then looking at my tread, and seeing that, Oh and being new to the forum, it kind of pissed me off to say the least. You bashed me to alot of people, So im sure people not really following this thinks Im a real winner know, Just think how would you feel being new just spending about 500 on a trip to buy coral, to come home and start reading this, lol man i glad im hooked or I may have gave up after this b/s.